Sound Familiar?        

Why do girls only want to "just be friends" with you?

Is the above scenario something you've experienced more times than you'd like to admit?

Congratulations! You've just stumbled upon the answers you've been looking for ever since puberty! Christian dating doesn't have to be hard. Learn how to never hear a girl tell you "I just don't like you like that" again!

Dear Friend,

You are not alone. I used to be just like you. I spent about 20 years trying to figure out why girls continually shattered my heart to pieces! I looked everywhere for the answer and found nothing.

Well-meaning people told me to just be myself and God would take care of it. It was good advice, but we end up hurting a LOT of girls in the process. That's not how God designed dating to work. God created a great design, but our society and sin has warped it. We need to get back to the way it's supposed to be. But, only a handful of people know the way. That's why I have written this book.

1. Stop getting your tender heart broken over and over again! No, it doesn't have to be like that. And no, it's not supposed to be like that!
    

2. Learn how to get rid of the "wall" that prevents girls from being attracted to you. It's also a wall that has very negative affects on the girls you care about the most.
    

3. Learn what girls really want, and why it's different than what they think they want.
    

4. Learn the best way to ask a girl out. You've been doing it wrong, I can almost guarantee it. And doing it wrong will almost certainly doom your chances. It will also put her in a very difficult and stressful position.
    

5. Learn what to do on and after a date.
    

6. Learn how to properly communicate with girls. Communicate on a deep level, in a language women expect. A language you are probably completely unaware of.
    

7. Learn the truth about romance. You have it all wrong, I promise.
    

8. Become the man God wants you to be. The man girls have been searching their whole lives for and never found. It's different than you think.
    

9. When you try to act like a prince, you are really acting like a peasant. Find out why, and how to really be her prince charming.
    

10. Learn how to tell when a girl is attracted to you. And exactly what to do once you find out.
     

11. Learn how/where to meet the kind of girls you want to date.
     

12. Learn how to flirt.
     

13. Learn how to be the best kisser your wife has ever dated.
     

14. Learn what girls really mean when they say "confidence".
     

15. Understand girls better than they understand themselves!
     

16. Never have a girl be "out of your league" again.
     

17. Learn why girls are attracted to jerks. And how to be more attractive to them than jerks will ever be!

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Why, Why, Why?

So, why aren't girls attracted to us? Why are Christian girls so flakey? Why don't they ever know what they want?

Is it because you aren't good looking enough?

Then how come you see ugly guys with gorgeous girls all the time? Looks shouldn't matter to a Christian, right?
 

Do you have to be a jerk to get girls?

No. Believe it or not, you can actually be more successful than jerks ever could.
 

Are girls just stupid?

No. There's actually a very logical reason why they act the way they do. Want to learn it? Keep reading!
 

I thought girls were impossible to understand.

For many, many years that was believed to be the case. But, once you learn the info in this book you'll understand exactly why girls act the way they do. You'll even be able to accurately predict how they will react before they do.

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What is the most attractive thing to girls?

As hard as it may be to believe, there is really only one thing that matters in attracting girls. If you have it, then it doesn't matter who you are, what you look like, or anything else...you will attract girls. Thankfully, it's something you can learn. So what is it?

• Is it looks? Nope.
   

• Is it a sense of humor? Not really.
   

• Is it romance? Definitely not.
   

• A close relationship with God? Sadly, no.
   

• Like interests? Nope.
   

• Good kisser? Ha!
   

• Confidence? Not exactly.
   

• Money? Not the kind of girls we are looking for!
   

• Personality? I'm not even sure what that's supposed to mean exactly.
   

• Skills? Sorry, Napoleon.
   

The truth is that you could guess all day and I'm pretty certain you'd never get it. Girls wouldn't even be able to tell you. But, they would 100% agree once you told them the secret!

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"There's a reason behind their odd and flakey behavior, and you are finally going to learn it!"

God has a great design, we've just been misunderstanding it. Once you learn and understand that design, you'll realize how amazing it is and develop a greater appreciation for it.

There are a lot of books on Christian dating out there, but all of them are about how to set boundaries and maintaining healthy relationships once you are already in one. None of them tell us how to get in a relationship in the first place! None of them answer the questions guys like us have.

There are some books out there now on attracting girls, but they are definitely not for Christians. They involve manipulation, sexual behavior, and going places/doing things that God would definitely not approve of. When it comes to Christian dating, we have pretty much been left in the cold...until now, of course.

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The Paradigm Shift

The reason girls have been so hard to understand is that we've been looking at it completely wrong. In order to understand what's really going on, you must go through a paradigm shift. Just about everything you think you know is wrong!

Girls are dating jerks because right now jerks are providing more of what they need than we are!

Sound crazy? That's because you need that shift. Girls are so hopelessly attracted to jerks because they are starved for certain things that literally no one is giving them! They are so starved that they will put up with psychological, and sometimes physical, abuse just to get a little bit of it. God gave us a responsibility and we have been failing that big time.

Dating is Different Than Marriage

Dating is completely different than being in a long relationship. The things that are so important in a marriage are completely different than dating. There are plenty of books about how to have a great relationship and provide for her needs. But, they just don't apply at all to dating. What they need during the dating stage is totally different, and often opposite, of what they need during long-term relationships.

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You can read the first 3 chapters of the book for free! Just click here to download the pdf file.

To read it you need Adobe Reader (available free here).

The full book is 13 chapters long (plus an introduction) and 101 pages!

If you enjoy the first 3 chapters and want the rest, you can purchase it via the link below. It's normally $35, but for a month or two we are giving it out for only $9.99 in order to collect some testimonials to put on the site.

After purchase you will be taken to the download page. Of course, if you try it out for 30 days and it doesn't help you at all we'd be glad to give your donation back.

Remember, if you don't get it here...you won't get it anywhere!

Thank you, and God bless!

- Jim Graham

P.S. I promise, this book will change your life!

P.P.S. Finally, there is a book on Christian dating that gives us the answers we've been so desperate for. Every Christian man needs to read it! Spread the word!